Saturday, April 13, 2013

Gratitude Moments, Vol. III, April 2013

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I find this exercise to be freeing, especially because I never know what the gratitude thoughts are going to be until they flow from my fingertips. Kind of like entertaining Angels unaware...because the moments of blessing lurk so quietly until we open the door and allow them to fly.

I never begin a Gratitude Moments post with a preconceived notion of what thoughts will be given voice.  So, here we go...walk with me and let's see what is discovered.

Gratitude Moments


  1. Having the perfect pillow for your bed.  This one is tricky.  I'm a pillow smoosher, and prefer a soft, fluffy pillow that I can punch and scrunch and mold.
  2. Having a conversation with someone who completely gets you.  Y'all know what I'm talking about.  It's that kind of exchange where words are almost unnecessary, but when words are exchanged, the flow is effortless.  I'm blessed with many relationships of this quality.
  3. Taking naps during the day, but even better, taking a nap during a rainy day.  I call them soft, gray days and we have them occasionally here in East Tennessee.  
  4. Snow.  Having enough snow for the making of Snow Cream, and walking out in Nature with my camera to capture magical moments.
  5. Having the dexterity and knowledge from learning to crochet as a child.  My great aunt Carrie taught me to crochet on her front porch, sitting in the glider.  Throughout my life, I have made countless Love Gifts for friends.  Some Love Blankets made for babies have now been passed down to the next generation, from what I'm told.  Knowing that I am creating a piece that will live for decades, given proper care, is something that I enjoy.  It's like leaving a piece of myself behind, infused with love.
  6. Online shopping!  Having worked many years in retail management, I am so appreciative that I can avoid malls during the holidays.  Online shopping is a huge gratitude moment.
  7. Recently joining in the marriage celebration of a very dear friend and seeing this ages old affirmation that love is enduring, crosses all boundaries and lifts us up.  *Congratulations, Spooks & Beth!*
  8. Call them what you will....handbags, purses, pocketbooks.  They make me happy!!!  I prefer the structured, classic lines that hark back to the mid-Century styles.  And yes, it may be true that a few of my bags are on the large and roomy side (Marticus, hush it!), but they're necessary.  Really, they are.
  9. One cannot express appreciation of handbags without giving an equal nod to shoes.  These two, handbags and shoes, are completely materialistic.  I admit it.  They're still something that makes me happy on a regular basis.  I'm equal opportunity in regard to heel height.  Flats, stilettos, and everything in between, with the exception of wedge heels (they look like animal hooves to me).
  10. Meeting someone who meshes with you regarding hugging style. This is huge, people!!  I'm not big on social "air hugs".  I want the full deal - both arms around me, hold me close and tight, eyes closed, for long, long, quiet moments so that we absorb one another.  Yes.  And you know who you are.
  11. Ruby red grapefruit.  It is one of my favorite fruits!  
  12. Eyes that see.  Limbs that function.  Ears that hear.  Lips that speak.  Lungs that breathe easily.  A body that is in a state of good health.  I am aware that each day I step from bed and walk throughout the world, there are many who have none of these blessings.  I am consciously aware of and embrace gratitude for having a healthy body, particularly so because I have experienced health challenges in the past.  
  13. Having a creative spirit - this is one of my strongest blessings.  It allows me to express myself in myriad ways.  Here, through writing.  In other areas, through my hands as I create tangible objects of art.  With my thoughts, as I engage in conversation with others.  In my waking and slumbering dreams, as those are the places that inspire me to do all of the aforementioned.
  14. I love the sound of trains at night.  I grew up in East Tennessee and the sound of trains is a constant backdrop.  Yes, I've written about this here at Healing Morning - Train Song, 3/12/2010.  As I am writing this post tonight, it is raining and I can hear the rhythm of an approaching train, its whistle muffled and distant.  Because this has been a background sound my whole life, it always makes me smile and brings me to a peaceful place when I hear the sound of trains.
  15. Both of my nephews bring me joy on a regular basis.  They're seven and ten years old, respectively, and at an age where normally hugging and kissing girls would ick them out.  I'm happy to report that this is not the case for me.  Either they don't see me as a girl, or they just love me enough to overlook that I'm a girl, because they hug and kiss me with much enthusiasm. It makes my heart melt. During Christmas holidays, as I was leaving my brother's house (their father), I heard, "Aunt Dawn, wait! I forgot to kiss you!  That means I get another hug."  These are currently wet puppy smelling hugs, because they're still little boys and they just always smell like wet puppies from playing hard.  They're accepted and returned with equal enthusiasm.  
  16. Spring planting.  As a kid, I would never have predicted that as an adult, I would grow to appreciate and enjoy gardening, but it has come to pass that I am repeating childhood cycles in the best way possible.  I am potting kitchen herbs, starting seedlings for tomatoes, waiting on flower bulbs to arrive from catalog orders, and anticipating a flourishing patio garden this year.  It reconnects me to happy memories of similar planning of gardens with my maternal grandfather, and my dear Mom.  And this year, with luck, my miniature Meyer lemon tree just might produce fruit!  
I ask you, who can live in such a world as described above, and not dwell in gratitude?

19 comments:

  1. I love all your gratitude moments and I agree with you completely... who could live in this world and not find gratitude... there is so much beauty to be see :)

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    1. Launna, thank you, chickadee! This is a fun, and life affirming exercise for me. I'm glad you enjoyed it! :)

      - Dawn

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  2. Loved all of them! I can definitely relate to number 2...! It's really refreshing, and for me kind of rare, to come across a friend or person that "gets me". Definitely a relationship to be grateful for!

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    1. Jessica, it's rare for me, also, and more reason to celebrate those golden relationships! Sometimes those people are with us for a short time; occasionally we're blessed to have them for a lifetime. Thank you for visiting and sharing your thoughts!

      - Dawn

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  3. Oh Dawn I loved this post, especially since you mentioned so many of my favorite things. The purses, yes. I could do an evolutionary chart of my purses and it would look something like the real chart from short and squatty purses to huge suitcase size ones. At work I have a backpack AND a purse. I love the idea of just letting the gratitude flow....it is amazing when you do that how many things you can come up with. I am with you with the rain and the sound of trains. I grew up in California and when I go back home I am soothed all night by trains passed about every 2 hours or so. WEll, I could go on and on. This brightened my work day considerable.....Thank you.

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    1. Lori, I'm so glad you enjoyed this one! The fact that you shared that it has brightened your work day is lovely to know. That's why we writers write, yes? To make some small difference in the world. Thank you for that beautiful affirmation!

      Namaste',

      Dawn

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  4. world is full of fun and gifts..
    and often we fail to appreciate these little things..

    loved those tidbits you mentioned.. I think beyond all those clutter n chaos it's these subtle things that counts :)

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    1. Jyoti, I agree with you that we often overlook the small treasures. Life can get so busy and distractions loom in every direction. That's why I write these posts every once in a while, to remind myself to stop and absorb the blessings. :)

      Much love to you, chickadee! <3

      - Dawn

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  5. What a wonderful list! And I wondered about the "y'all"--I grew up in Memphis! I bet we sound very similar when we talk. Tennessee and North Carolina sound very close to me. Thanks for sharing your gratitude list. I'm going to go add to mine now.

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    1. Galen, yep, Knoxville, Tennessee! I have lived in many other locations, but this is where I continually return. It's always going to be home for me.

      I'm glad you enjoyed this list; the exercise is a valuable one, to recognize reasons to dwell in gratitude. :)

      Namaste',

      Dawn

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  6. Mmm... I love that you don't know what you will be expressing gratitude for until it expresses itself!

    How about: Being grateful for yourself? :-)

    I mean it! Most of us are deeply grateful for the presence of other people and the world around us - and so am I! :-) But then again, it is equally important to appreciate our own existence and to express gratitude towards ourselves...

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    1. Halina, I love that part of it, also! It never fails to delight me when the thoughts surface, and I spend the whole time with a smile on my face whilst writing.

      Being grateful for yourself is a wonderful suggestion! I often reference a wonderful quote by Helen Hayes:

      "We relish news of our heroes, forgetting that we are extraordinary to somebody too."

      That quote is always a strong reminder that we each carry a state of Grace that others recognize immediately, and reflect back to us, if we take time to truly see it. :)

      Namaste',

      Dawn

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  7. Dear Dawn,

    What a delightful read! Every single thing on your list made me nod and smile. Wonderful! Thank you for sharing! XOXOX

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    1. Hey Miss Linda! I love that you smiled along with me! I said in a reply above that as I write these specific posts, I am conscious of constantly smiling. Dwelling in gratitude just does that...lifts the lips to smile, lifts the heart to happy, brightens the world to sparkling, sheer golden hue. Thank you for walking that path with me here. :)

      Much love,

      Dawn

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  8. Reading this post was a beautiful reminder to me of all that I have to be grateful for. Sometimes we overlook the little things...like fluffy pillows, until we're made to sleep with a flat lumpy pillow, and then the longing comes through.
    I'm grateful for water...cool clean water and long hot baths.
    Love you Dawnie!

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    1. Leah, oh my word, the torment of a flat, lumpy pillow! The night become endless. Water - there's a good one, in all forms. We started the day in Knoxville w/ torrential downpour and high winds, but now it is easing off into my favorite soft, gray day. Makes me want to be at home, sofa snuggling!

      Loving you in return, chickadee! :)

      - Dawnie

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  9. This wonderful piece is a delightful read... Sharing your gratitude darling and feeling happy that you shared such beautiful thoughts... Thank you! <3

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    1. My dear Jane, you always lift my heart when you visit. I always feel that lovely and loving connection with you, and a smile always lights my face because of it. I count you, always, as one of my blessings.

      Much love!

      - Dawnie

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